When Sh#T Happens in Life

$#!+ is going to happen in our lives and it’s going to bring up so much pain, hurt, rage, anger and every emotion we may try to avoid…

There will be moments of complete shock, like literally are you fu(|<ing kidding me moments…

Moments we’ll feel completely betrayed, disappointed and in disbelief by events and people outside of our control…

Moments we almost lose faith and think, “but I thought this was a benevolent universe for crying out loud!”

These are the moments of witnessing or experiencing the darker shades of life.

The moments we lose our innocence and naiveness.

In these moments we may also become angry with ourselves as if we should have known better.

In the moment, we won’t understand any of it. We may even fight it, deny it for a bit, and even drive ourselves crazy wondering, but how???
How did this happen?
Why did this happen?

We may even regret, spinning in our minds wondering what could have been done differently to avoid it but to no avail because we can’t go back and change the past…

What if everything really does happen for a very good reason?
Even if we don’t know why?
Even if it’s not fair?
Even if it hurts?

All we can do in these moments is learn the lessons, pick ourselves up and trust against the evidence that everything is happening for our greatest becoming.

And trust that when we look back it’ll all make sense.

While in the midst of the anger, sadness, rage and frustration it’s difficult to see clearly.

While in the midst of learning the lessons little makes sense.

But just trust that someday we’ll look back and laugh.

That this scene of our movie will be one of the highlights because it was so wildly challenging and we overcame it.

We’ll be stronger, wiser and more resilient than ever before because of it.

Our greatest becoming is especially forged in the challenges and the dark nights of the soul.

It’s never for nothing.
Even the tragedies and traumas serve the direction of our life.

This is a reminder to keep going.
The story’s not over yet.

Process it, feel it, heal it.

You’ve got this.
You’re stronger for it.

🤍

With love,
#drnikkistarr #drlove

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